How to Choose the Right Toys For Your Children

save money on toysFor those of us that have children, I think it’s pretty common knowledge that the cost of raising a child is by no means cheap. Also, for us first-time parents, we don’t have the luxury of “hindsight” so I am sure there are quite a few things we have “wasted” our money on during a child’s lifetime. Therefore, what I want to do in this post is identify as many ways as I could to save on the expenses of raising a baby.

But instead of focusing on the thousands of ways we can save money on our child, I want to focus on one area that I think is often overlooked: the wonderful world of toys. Wouldn’t it be great if we could really look inside our child’s mind to determine if the toy that we’re contemplating buying is something he’s really going to play with? Or if that toy is simply going to end up in the the corner with the other 20 that he played with for five minutes and cast aside? Personally, nothing to me is more aggravating than spending good money on a toy my son promises me he’ll play with only to see it end up in that pile, and nothing is more satisfying than knowing that I made a great toy purchase.

Below, I have listed some tips and pointers that I’ve gathered from my personal experiences and observations over the past few years with my one son who is currently three. Keep in mind that they are not professional opinions and are not based on research or anything like that. Just one man’s opinions on what has worked for me. Hopefully you’ll find these tips useful:


First and foremost, I make the safety check. My son is three, so many of the choking hazards don’t apply. When he was one, this was much more of a concern. However, I still give it the “once over” for loose small parts, strings that could potentially be choking hazards, and the like.

Age Restrictions

I use the age restrictions listed on a toy but only to an extent. My son is big for his age and pretty smart as well. So I tend to go up the scale a little bit. If I stuck with these age requirements, I know he’d have a much bigger pile of those toys in “the wasteland.”


At this point in my son’s development, he is definitely drawn more towards toys that involve activity. He is no longer interested in watching a motorized car go across the living room floor. He wants toys where he can actively participate in the “playing.” Frisbees, toy musical instruments, other sporting-type stuff, and fantasy0fighting items (plastic swords for example) have really done the trick lately.

Sensory Stimulation

If the potential new toy doesn’t have some kind of light or make some kind of noise, its chances of success go down tremendously. I am sure there is some learning/development explanation for this. All I can say is if it doesn’t light up or make some sound, it’s probably not going to happen!


I’ve recently found that items that serve some sort of functionality in my son’s life have really been hits. Maybe this concept is a little difficult to illustrate, but I’ll try. I recently found a Spiderman table that I thought my son would like, not so much because it was a table but for the Spiderman part of it. Turns out, he loves having his own table. It’s nothing more than a mini card table with two chairs, but he now eats his snacks there, and does most of his projects there, too. He even takes care of it as well! He always makes sure that it is clean and that the chairs are pushed in also. I realize that he likes the table so much because it is so functional, and can be used for so many of his activities.

Education in Measured Doses

Once again, just personal opinion, but I try not to go too nuts on the educational stuff. The way I see it, the time he has before he starts school is precisely the time for him to be goofing around with toy helicopters and pretending to be Superman. Does he really need to be all the way up to Trigonometry before school starts? I certainly read to him and we spend time on some learning/educational tools, but in measured doses.

The Power of the Dollar Store

One final tip. If you find yourself in quite a “hit and miss” pattern with your child regarding toy purchase choices, I’d highly suggest utilizing the toy section at your local dollar store. If I spend a dollar on a toy and it ends up in the “five minutes and out” heap, it’s much less painful than that toy I drop a “twenty” on that ends up in that heap. You can also try to find toy coupon codes for your favorite toy stores as well.

I would love to hear any and all stories, observations, and opinions on this subject from our readers. Have you found a system that works for you? Think I’m way off base? Feel free to share with us below.

(photo credit: foqus)

  • Jan

    Grandmother/Early childhood educator lurker here:>)

    I would not purchase at the dollar store- in fact I would be very careful about toys made in China. Lead paint, small parts not labeled. Be careful!.
    Look around your house. You probably have tons of toys waiting for your child to learn from. is a great place to start. Easy to make “stuff”. Forget expensive “educational toys”. The only thing that shows high success in school is a large vocabulary when starting school. Nothing else stands up in actual studies. Talk to them, play with them, explore with them. “Baby can read” and learning pads are a waste of time. There is no evidence that they do anything for a young child.
    Until your child is seven or so they are learning with one part of the brain. When their brain matures the learning moves to the area of reading. There is some preliminary evidence that forcing early reading actually causes learning disabilities in boys….
    As for those noisy ones- remember they have a life time with those ears. Take out the batteries and just play.
    If your child is over seven and in school- as much down time as possible should be outside. Again- vocabulary, vocabulary, vocabulary!
    Ok- the nana will leave now:>)

    • David

      Hey there

      Thank you so much for yuor much more professional take on the subject!!

      I really appreciate it.

      Obviously, mine is an uninformed, novice-type point of view, but I really appreciate your words and viewpoint.

      It really improves the quality of this article.

      Thanks and hope to hear from you again!

  • Amy Livingston

    If you want to save money on toys but don’t want to subject your kids to the questionable China-made kind from the dollar store, a good tip is to buy secondhand. I’ve found some amazing, high-quality toys at yard sales: old Tonka trucks made from real metal, wooden puzzles from Melissa and Doug, crafty toys like a potholder loom and a book on how to make your own pop-up books. If a toy is well made, kids will outgrow it before it wears out, so lots of yard-sale toys are in great condition.