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How to Fit “Giving” into Your Budget

by Joanna Crain

I ran across this story on the Chicago Tribune website filed under “Happy News,” and I couldn’t resist sharing it with you. According to the Tribune, Grace Groner lived frugally for years on a secretary’s salary and upon her death at age 100, she donated $7 million to her alma mater, Lake Forest College. In addition to this incredible donation, she also created a small scholarship program and gifted money to it consistently for years. What an amazing feat for a woman in her position!  So how did she do it?

The Tribune added that Groner’s behemoth donation was the result of a $180 stock purchase she made in 1935, which is now worth $7 million. The shares in Abbott Laboratories, where she worked as a secretary for over 43 years, spilt many times over a span of seven decades. Grace just kept reinvesting the dividends. Grace’s investing strategy of putting all of her financial eggs in one basket is not a strategy we would recommend, but in this case, it worked out very well for her.

The stock purchase turned out to be a good investment and she handled it wisely through the years, but the most interesting thing is how she lived and why she never felt the need to spend any of the money. She lived very frugally and felt no reason to live like her affluent neighbors. She kept a small apartment for years until a friend willed her a home in the neighborhood of Lake Forest, once reserved for servants. The one-bedroom house contained only the essentials, a few pieces of furniture and kitchenware. Rather than buying a car, she walked to work. Her clothes were bought from garage sales and thrift stores.

Grace lived through the Great Depression and was very restrained with her finances, similar to many others who went through this devastating time. She was a kind and caring lady with a great sensitivity to those in need whom she would help with small gifts, according to Pastor Kent Kinney. She helped many people over her lifetime and will continue posthumously to help many more young students realize their educational dreams.

“The foundation’s millions should generate more than $300,000 a year for the college, enabling dozens more students to travel and pursue internships. Many probably wouldn’t be able to pursue those opportunities without a scholarship: 75 percent of the student body receives financial aid,” said Stephen Schutt, Lake Forest College President.

While we all can’t be a Grace Groner or want to live such a restrictive financial lifestyle as she did, we can take a lesson from this—the importance of giving. But you may be saying. “I’m barely squeaking by myself, how am I supposed to help anyone else?” It is possible to give on a budget, you just have to plan for giving and work it in. It doesn’t matter how much you give, just plan to give a certain amount each month. Whether it is $10, $20, $500 or buying stock and planning your estate like Grace did, you can help someone who has nothing or just needs a little help.

Giving increases our emotional wealth, and it can even increase it financially. I’ve always tried to work giving into my financial plan. I’ve even experienced the joys of being on the receiving end; at a time when I was in my darkest financial hour, on my own with two small children and suffering from an illness that kept me from work, a man heard of my story and gave me enough money to get back on my feet. I will never forget him and his example of selfless giving.  No matter the reason behind your giving, just give what you can and watch the seeds of your effort grow just as Grace Groner did.

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Comments

  • Donna

    It is tough to fit giving in right now. What I do is this:
    1) Regularly go through my clothes and possessions to give to various charities that follow my personal beliefs.
    2) Refrain from buying some things in order to have a few dollars to give.
    3) Donate from extra funds I receive through occasional music gigs (clarinet).
    4) I will occasionally pick up articles at garage sales to give to charity.
    5) Bake items for fundraisers.

    These are just some ideas. I cannot wait to see what ideas other readers have.
    God Bless.

  • gina

    This story is very inspiring. It can be overwhelming if you believe that you need millions of dollars to make a difference in the lives of others. Really, it is the small things that you can do that can make a difference. Recently I have been couponing, and I have found that there are TONS of freebies (or quality items at very low cost) out there, as long as you pay attention! This has allowed me to donate so many items to people in need.

  • Tabatha

    With so many people in need now I’ve been giving this a lot of thought and have decided that I should give enough that it does hurt a little bit. We are naturally self-interested, so to be generous I need to step outside of what I can easily and thoughtlessly give and stretch myself to give a little more. I’m sure Grace understood this better than anyone.

  • Emily D.

    I think giving is an integral part of a healthy financial life. I find giving keeps me from holding too tightly to my money both physically and emotionally. Of course, the amount will change, but there are few financial situations where you truly can’t give anything at all. If you can’t give when you are on a more restrained budget, you won’t give on a big budget either.

  • Chris

    We have been giving away baby clothes that our son has grown out of, as well as items we no longer wear. We also make it a point to donate at least $100 each year to a charity – usually my work provides a dollar for dollar company match with donations, as long as we give to their charitable foundation. We can then invest the match into any charity we want. This effectively doubles the contribution we planned to give, which is great.

    One tip that can benefit you as well as make you feel good is to donate stock; particularly stock that you are planning to sell, but have capital gains. By donating stock, you can then claim the total amount on your taxes, and not have to pay the capital gains on your stock. Therefore you keep the money you were planning to donate in lieu of the stock, and avoid the capital gains you were going to pay when you sold the stock.

  • http://www.yourfinances101.com/blog David/Yourfinances101

    I think you’ve got to take care of yourself first.

    After that, since there are about a million places to give your money to, you have to choose a few that you feel passionate about, and direct your resources there.

  • http://madsaver.com Mac

    It is tough to give in this economy, but with the recession, that means that more people than ever are in need of help. I don’t have much to give as we’re just making it ourselves, but I try to help out where I can. Usually that entails a lot of clothing, furniture, old electronics to several local charities. Donating our time to help out non-profit organizations is also something we’re continuing to do.

  • Winston C

    Since I am a college student, I don’t have a lot of money to spare. So the way I manage to squeeze some money to donate is to refrain myself from buying certain stuff such as snacks and then give those money that I save to charities. And another benefit of such doing is that I live healthier.

  • Winston C

    While the story is very inspiring, I find it a bit sad about Grace Groner’s life. To me, she lived her life too frugally when she had that much wealth on her hands. She could have at least enjoyed her life a little bit more. Travel the world a couple times maybe. Although some might find this a bit exaggerated, the image that I had in my head after I read her story was Mother Teresa.

  • Elizabeth I

    I think people forget about giving their time. Isn’t time so precious? I have been so grateful for people who have volunteered their time to help me with some special therapy for one of my children. Also, I have been very grateful for hospital volunteers who have spent time with my son when he was in the hospital.

  • http://ameriloansearch.com/ Kollin

    “Charity” is one of the fixed amounts included in my budget. It includes my weekly donation to the collection at church, and a donation to another organization. Right now that usually comes out to a $40 donation each month to some organization. I’d love to be able to increase that a bit. There are a handful of non-profits that I support that are particularly important to me, and this works better on my conscience than giving larger amounts to only one or two organizations. Even when I was a student I used this strategy, only back then I donated $10-15 to each of the organizations on my list. I figure every little bit counts!

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