Comments on: How to Strike a Deal on an Engagement Ring This Holiday Season http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season personal finance blog Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:07:50 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Who am I? http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3959 Who am I? Fri, 08 Dec 2006 03:48:13 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3959 <strong>How to Strike a Deal on an Engagement Ring This Holiday Season...</strong> Women of the world are celebrating the Diamond Right Hand Ring! Blend your distinct love of design with your passion and desire for eternal style. The Diamond Right Hand Ring is the perfect piece of diamond jewelry to reveal your unique personality. So... How to Strike a Deal on an Engagement Ring This Holiday Season…

Women of the world are celebrating the Diamond Right Hand Ring!
Blend your distinct love of design with your passion and desire for eternal style. The Diamond Right Hand Ring is the perfect piece of diamond jewelry to reveal your unique personality. So…

]]> By: mjh http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3958 mjh Tue, 21 Nov 2006 23:11:27 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3958 "Girls like having that symbol that they are taken by the man they want to marry" and some girls really, really, don't like it. Personally, I could only ever afford a really shitty ring, neither me nor my fiancee are all that materialistic and diamondy, we don't like the idea of small African child slaves mining them for our gratification.... so I got her this instead http://www.flickr.com/photos/mojohealy/122899666/in/set-72057594134002886/ it's a pendant symbolising eternity and the comingling of lives, carved from native New Zealand jade and bought in the small town that we call our home. I had to put up with all the naysayers that said the diamond was the only way to go... all they were doing was showing their ignorance in mine and Jen's personality. Do what's right for you, and for her, and that might not always be an obscene diamond. “Girls like having that symbol that they are taken by the man they want to marry”

and some girls really, really, don’t like it. Personally, I could only ever afford a really shitty ring, neither me nor my fiancee are all that materialistic and diamondy, we don’t like the idea of small African child slaves mining them for our gratification….

so I got her this instead
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mojohealy/122899666/in/set-72057594134002886/
it’s a pendant symbolising eternity and the comingling of lives, carved from native New Zealand jade and bought in the small town that we call our home.

I had to put up with all the naysayers that said the diamond was the only way to go… all they were doing was showing their ignorance in mine and Jen’s personality. Do what’s right for you, and for her, and that might not always be an obscene diamond.

]]> By: erik.folgate http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3957 erik.folgate Tue, 21 Nov 2006 21:44:40 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3957 I would feel really weird not buying my wife an engagement ring. I know that it is just a tradition, and jewelers have done a great job making us think that it is ESSENTIAL to buy your fiance an engagement ring, but I think most girls do want one. Unless my wife had insisted up and down not to get her one, then I would have probably done it. Girls like having that symbol that they are taken by the man they want to marry. I would feel really weird not buying my wife an engagement ring. I know that it is just a tradition, and jewelers have done a great job making us think that it is ESSENTIAL to buy your fiance an engagement ring, but I think most girls do want one. Unless my wife had insisted up and down not to get her one, then I would have probably done it. Girls like having that symbol that they are taken by the man they want to marry.

]]> By: Lazy Man and Money http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3956 Lazy Man and Money Tue, 21 Nov 2006 17:30:44 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3956 The smartest thing I did was to go <a href="http://www.pricescope.com/" rel="nofollow">Price Scope</a>. It's a search engine for online diamonds and the prices are often 30-50% less than Amazon or Blue Nile. When I got it appraised the appraisor couldn't believe the deal I got. He showed me his connection to the NY Wholesale Diamond Exchange (I think that what it was called) and found only one for the price that I got that was near the quality. He said this is the best price he could do with his license and being in the business for 20 years. The Price Scope forums are particularly helpful. If you can get away without getting a ring, it's a good plan. My fiancee had been deprived of every luxury that her peers had growing up as her parents wasted lots of money never saving anything. It was my biggest opportunity to say, "I understand how that often made you feel second best growing up, so here's a symbol that you will always be first best at least to me." The smartest thing I did was to go Price Scope. It’s a search engine for online diamonds and the prices are often 30-50% less than Amazon or Blue Nile. When I got it appraised the appraisor couldn’t believe the deal I got. He showed me his connection to the NY Wholesale Diamond Exchange (I think that what it was called) and found only one for the price that I got that was near the quality. He said this is the best price he could do with his license and being in the business for 20 years.

The Price Scope forums are particularly helpful.

If you can get away without getting a ring, it’s a good plan. My fiancee had been deprived of every luxury that her peers had growing up as her parents wasted lots of money never saving anything. It was my biggest opportunity to say, “I understand how that often made you feel second best growing up, so here’s a symbol that you will always be first best at least to me.”

]]> By: donna jean http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3955 donna jean Tue, 21 Nov 2006 17:28:49 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3955 I must agree with skipping the ring. However, the partner insisted that he had to give me one, so we used a family ring instead of buying a new one. In our case, it was a ring my grandmother gave me years ago and he had it cleaned and resized so it fit perfectly. I love wearing it every day and I love that it didn't cost anything. Oh, and for the wedding rings, we made our own titanium bands - they cost $14. :) I must agree with skipping the ring. However, the partner insisted that he had to give me one, so we used a family ring instead of buying a new one. In our case, it was a ring my grandmother gave me years ago and he had it cleaned and resized so it fit perfectly. I love wearing it every day and I love that it didn’t cost anything.

Oh, and for the wedding rings, we made our own titanium bands – they cost $14. :)

]]> By: biz http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3954 biz Wed, 15 Nov 2006 20:51:57 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3954 Just skip the ring. esp the diamond, and if you get one anyway and its from DeBeers, God will kill a kitten. Get a fake one to 'show-off' to friends and family. Just skip the ring. esp the diamond, and if you get one anyway and its from DeBeers, God will kill a kitten.

Get a fake one to ’show-off’ to friends and family.

]]> By: Harm http://www.moneycrashers.com/how-to-strike-a-deal-on-an-engagement-ring-this-holiday-season/comment-page-1/#comment-3953 Harm Wed, 15 Nov 2006 03:52:04 +0000 http://moneycrashers.com/?p=200#comment-3953 Newlyweds-to-be of the world, unite! DON'T get engagement rings, and get plain wedding rings. Engagement rings are a really sucky deal, especially if you go for the jewellers ripoff guidelines of 3 mo. salary. Are they kidding? And on a personal finance blog, too, LoL. Skip the ring, put a few more mortgage payments in the bank....or a start on future kids education funds, or retirement....I hate bling of any sort, personally....especially if folks go into debt, which it's hard not to do at that age, with that large and useless a purchase. Just my opinion, of course. Newlyweds-to-be of the world, unite! DON’T get engagement rings, and get plain wedding rings.
Engagement rings are a really sucky deal, especially if you go for the jewellers ripoff guidelines
of 3 mo. salary. Are they kidding? And on a personal finance blog, too, LoL. Skip the ring, put a
few more mortgage payments in the bank….or a start on future kids education funds, or
retirement….I hate bling of any sort, personally….especially if folks go into debt, which it’s hard
not to do at that age, with that large and useless a purchase. Just my opinion, of course.

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