The Myths of TLC’s “Extreme Couponing” – How Couponing Really Works

couponingIf you’re a reality TV junkie like me, you’ve probably seen the TLC show “Extreme Couponing.” In the show, devout couponers score major deals, procuring items for as much as a full 100% discount. Some shoppers even work the system so they’re essentially paid to take the items from the store, receiving credits, points, and vouchers that exceed the value of the items they’ve purchased.

It sounds like these are pretty amazing deals, right?

Unfortunately, what “Extreme Couponing” doesn’t show is exactly how these shoppers acquire such deals. It also depicts the subjects embroiled in some serious ethical issues, all for the sake of building their “stash.” Sure, sometimes the shoppers are purchasing items for an upcoming church supper, the homeless shelter, and stationed troops – but this is not the norm.

After watching a number of episodes, I began to wonder whether “Extreme Couponing” is even close to depicting “reality.”

Hidden Aspects Behind Extreme Couponing

I readily admit that couponing doesn’t appeal to me. Sure, I’ll redeem a coupon for $10 off a $40 purchase at a department store every now and then, but otherwise I turn to comparison shopping and sales to save money. But the couponers depicted on “Extreme Couponing” attack the task with ferocious intensity. Is it even possible to shop like that all the time? Some of their techniques are not only unrealistic, they’re downright wrong.

Before you grab your coupon binder and a ton of newspaper inserts, make sure that you get all the facts about hardcore couponing and what it could mean for your shopping habits.

Big Work Load

The TV program always shows the couponers sitting down and clipping coupons in piles, and even going house-to-house to collect inserts and sheets of coupons. Of course, an episode is only 30 minutes in length. But to get the kinds of deals that the couponers snag in a show, you’d have to devote hours each day to the pursuit of extreme¬†couponing: gathering, clipping, surfing the Web for deals, and shopping. Is the amount you’d save while couponing comparable to how much you’d earn at a full-time job, or even at a part-time job?

Couponers are seriously dedicated to their craft, which means you can’t expect to get the same deals unless you’re willing to put in the time. Some people find that time is better spent earning money as opposed to saving money grocery shopping.

Smoke and Mirrors – Fake Deals

Extreme couponers always seem to know where to shop to get the cheapest price, and some of the best deals occur when a store doubles coupons. For example, in one episode, a woman wanted to buy bagged salad that cost $1. She had a $0.50 coupon, and the store happily doubled it, therefore allowing her to take the salad for free. You could do the same, right?

Well, not exactly. Many of the stores featured in the show came under fire when it was discovered that coupons were doubled for the show only. When other couponers headed in to claim the same deal, store owners pointed out that the show was done for promotional reasons only, and coupon doubling was not allowed.

Store managers are well within their rights to change store policies as they see fit, but you might be caught by surprise when you try to get a deal that doesn’t pan out. Just remember that the stores featured on television might offer promotions during filming only – you probably won’t get the same deal.


Frequent Store Squabbles

In the show “Extreme Couponing,” shoppers are always shown interacting with cheerful cashiers who are more than happy to scan hundreds of clipped coupons, even applauding when the final total is just pennies on the dollar. It’s important to remember that these cashiers have been coached for this televised transaction. When there’s a problem, the manager is called, who then easily retools the system to accept more coupons and deeper discounts.

The mere mortal who shops with coupons definitely shouldn’t expect the same treatment. Unless you’re shopping with a camera crew following you around, you may experience a variety of roadblocks. Each store has different policies on how many coupons are allowed for each item or each transaction, and you might be turned away when you try to redeem too many.

Furthermore, you might get an attitude from cashiers or managers who don’t appreciate your method of shopping. On “Extreme Couponing,” it’s common practice to purchase entire palettes or cases of free or cheap products. However, if you’re planning a big shopping trip during which you expect to purchase a large quantity of the same item, or if you plan to save more than 50% off your total bill by using coupons, it’s best to call ahead. Introduce yourself, explain which coupons you’d like to use, and the amount of products you want. That way, the store gets a heads up that you’re coming in, which they will surely appreciate. Additionally, you can get the inside scoop on what’s acceptable for redemption – and the store can even order more product so you’re not clearing out their entire inventory.

Hidden Costs

Extreme couponers display their store receipts like a badge of honor on the show, online, and in their homes. Almost any hardcore bargain shopper can easily tell you about his or her best score; specifically, how much was bought and how much was saved. While it’s definitely thrilling, the couponers don’t always tell you the hidden costs of saving all that money.

Plenty of hardcore bargain shoppers purchase extra copies of the newspaper to ensure that they have multiples of each and every coupon, and the cost of newspapers can add up over time. If your Sunday paper costs $2.50 per copy and you purchase four for couponing purposes, it adds up $40 a month for the paper alone. That definitely cuts into your savings, doesn’t it?

Next, you need to consider your gas costs. Most couponers happily bargain shop by driving around to several stores in one day, but if you drive a gas guzzler, that will eat up your fuel budget – perhaps by as much as $50 per month.

Lastly, if you print your coupons at home, you’ll probably go through at least one ink cartridge per month, which costs around $30. Add it all up, and saving money could actually cost you $120 per month – or $1,440 per year!

It pays to do the math. Make sure that you’re saving on stuff you’ll actually use and that your savings add up to more than the cost of couponing – otherwise, you could end up doing a lot of work for nothing.

Unused and Unhealthy Products

Seasoned couponers can tell you that it is possible to score great deals on healthy foods like produce, baking staples, and dairy, but it’s definitely not the norm. Much of the time, the best deals are for processed foods, condiments, and toiletries. That’s great if you’re in the market for a bunch of new toothbrushes for your family, but you could end up spending money on unhealthy foods and stuff you don’t need and won’t use. Think about it – getting a bottle of ketchup for $0.50 is a great deal, but if that great deal entices you to purchase 30 bottles, you’ve just spend $15 on more ketchup that you may not¬†use before the expiration date. That’s not smart.

The people on “Extreme Couponing” might purchase hundreds of the same product for their “stash” or to divvy up for various causes. But unless you can use the product before the expiration date and it’s something healthy for your family, leave it on the shelf.

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Ethical Issues

There’s really no problem with using manufacturer’s coupons at the store. Most offer the store a full rebate, as well as additional funds for handling, shipping, and processing. But when “Extreme Couponers” depicts a shopper clearing out an entire store’s supply of yogurt, pain relievers, or toilet paper, it begs the question: It might be legal, but is it right? When the manufacturers create coupons or stores offer promotions, they’re hoping to attract more customers, not offer a single person free product. Coupons are made for the casual shopper, not the extreme type.

I’ll admit that I’ve blamed overzealous and inconsiderate couponers for causing me inconveniences. When an entire shelf of a product I need is gone, or if I’m stuck in line for an hour while a couponer price checks and ad matches, my blood begins to boil.

There’s an ethical difference between grateful couponers and extreme couponers. Grateful and considerate couponers use their coupons to get the best discounts without affecting other shoppers, while extreme couponers do what they can to stretch their money, regardless of how it affects others. This might be a controversial opinion, but I appreciate it when couponers show a little restraint in the grocery store by shopping during slower hours, or by leaving product on the shelves despite the ability to buy it all due to a deep discount.

Final Word

You can’t believe everything you see on TV. The show “Extreme Couponing” opens up a world of savings for budget-conscious shoppers, but it doesn’t necessarily paint the whole picture. To be a real extreme couponer, you need to have a ton of time, a large investment, and very thick skin. For some, it’s a way of life, but extreme couponing is definitely not for everyone. Tread carefully so you don’t completely lose your head, time, or money.

What do you think of “Extreme Couponing”?

  • Maria Nedeva

    It all depends on what else you would do with the time. We have 24 hours a day but if you can earn or just rest instead then extreme couponing is not for you. If on the othere hand you really have no money and need to feed a family, go for it! But making a business of it just because the saving is there is a dubious activity. It all comes down to how much your time is worth.

  • Jon Dulin

    I’ve heard news stories about extreme couponing that echo your sentiments. Personally, I browse through the coupons, but 99% of the time, the coupons are for items I wouldn’t buy in the first place. It’s mostly processed foods. There are never coupons for healthy staples. Every once in a while I’ll get a coupon for tuna fish, but it is rare.

    • Retha Lockhart

      I JUST cashed in a coupon for Purdue chicken and halo oranges. Halos coupons come at least once a month sometimes twice. I’m not sure where you live but here we do have some good for you food coupons.

  • greenandchic

    Reality TV has been proven to be fake, unrealistic, and unethical in some cases so I opted out of watching it a long time ago. Couponing never appealed to me. I do have a small folder in my purse full of coupons (local store coupons, Whole Foods, Chinook Book, etc) but I may use 1-2 coupons per shopping trip – hardly enough to save even close to 50% on my grocery bill. I eat mostly whole foods, fruits, vegetables, meat and fish from the counters and bulk nuts, spices, etc so unless I can find a coupon for local organic apples, I will never save as much as they claim you can.

  • Jane Savers

    These extreme couponers will be starring in an episode of Hoarders in a few years.
    Most of the stuff they buy is processed food and cleaning chemicals. Real food does not have coupons.

  • Revelation

    “A penny saved is a penny earned”, so good for them.
    At a point in time when some still had ‘common sense’, ‘believe only half of what you see, and believe nothing you hear’. Vet everything, even broadcast or print media.

  • Nina

    Wow – you didn’t post my comment PLEASE EXPLAIN ?

  • Karen

    One thing that I think that was missed in this article was that when you watch the shows you must be aware that they are ony buying about 4-6 things and each of them in bulk. They are in no way shopping for the daily consumption of food for themselves or their extended families. I love to coupon and yes it takes time, but when I can buy bulk and for free or nearly free, I do and then promptly turn over all of the extra to my local food chapters. I do not have a stock pile although my pantry is full. I have never cleared a shelf of a single product and not left any for anyone else. I do not dumpster dive for extra coupons, but occasionally will buy an extra paper or two depending on the coupons that are in that week. Couponing can be a gratifying experience especially when funds are low, but everything in moderation is really the way to go.

  • Long Pham

    I never realized that some of the stores only doubled coupons for the show. I was watching the show in disgust as the couponers piled a bunch of processed, high sodium foods into their carts. I would agree with Jane that the couponers are hoarders with a case of OCD.

  • Cami

    She wasn’t saying don’t use coupons!! She was just referring to the show and many stores don’t allow you to double a coupon (The stores in my area don’t anyway). Good for you for being a “Wealthy Lady”. You sound like a nut bag!!!!

  • Ashley

    this show always pissed me off though im watching it right now, they go and clear the shelves of items other people need too. Now I know that the show is pretty much fake.

  • Anonymous

    The show is total bs! I’ve been couponing for several years. There is not a single shopping trip I do without coupons. I lived in different states and shopped in various supermarkets, but I never came across a store that would double unlimited amount of coupons, let you use a BOGO coupon with another coupon on a same item, or do any other savings multiplying tricks, that you see on the show. I can count on fingers how many items I got for free or nearly free by using coupons. And I am not dumb or lazy. This is how real life is! There is no such thing as coupon on tomatoes or apples. Many coupons I find in inserts or online are for items that are not sold in any store where I live, and I live in large urban area with almost every supermarket you can think of. Many coupons that I find are for the items I wouldn’t buy, because I have no use for them. Manufacturers offer their coupons with an intent to make you buy something that you normally would never buy, but with a coupon you probably will. And maximum saving value a manufacturer will offer you is 30%, but more often it is much less. I have never seen a coupon of $5 for an item that costs $5.99, especially if it is paper towels or toilet paper, as you often see on the show. And the most annoying of lies on the show is how they seem to pay no sales tax whatsoever. There is no store that takes out your sales tax, even if the item is free you still have to pay sales tax on it.

    • Amy Livingston

      There may be no such thing as a *manufacturer’s* coupon on tomatoes or apples, but I have seen store coupons for them. My local Stop & Shop sometimes prints them in its circular or puts them on the Web. These are not the same as sales, which apply to everyone; you have to present the coupon. So produce coupons do pop up occasionally, but not that often.

    • none

      I agree this show is fake one, in most of the shopping store of my state Pa…you cannot use coupon on trial size there is also a limited amout of product you can by per customer and a limit if not only one coupon per item.certainly not two different manufacture coupon on same item. I clip coupons yes and save some money but nothing like was extreme coupon tlc show depicts. Also you absolutely dont get money back. Soooo extremely fake i simply watch it for what it is entertainment…the same way i watch Bee movie with Jerry Steinfield its entertaining. Nothing more because its fake.

  • Anubisntealc

    What a jackwagon! She didn’t say that the about store only offer double coupons for the show only she was staying the SOME stores will only do things for the camera…. Why don’t you read the article instead of jumping to conclusions? Crazy “wealthy lady”

  • coupongirlsla

    First of all how can you write an article when you have never experienced the show. This is crap. I was on the show and your not very accurate.

  • Retha Lockhart

    I have 4 papers home delivered each week for 4 dollars per week (got a deal) plus one I receive in the mail free (everyone here does) I don’t print ever! I don’t wipe anyone out… EVER…. I do have a friend I swap out coupons with so we make the most of what we want and use the most of. If we find super great deals and COULD wipe someone out I spread the deals out over several stores or between two counties I travel between most days anyway. My stock is contained to one bathroom cabinet, kitchen pantry/shelves/refrigerator and for laundry what ever fits on the dryer or above on the shelf. I spend 4-6hrs Max total per week . That’s clipping and planning and shopping. I save between 30 to 50 dollars per week. All our stores are lined up for us so the maximum I am drive is three miles. So that is the advantage for me. It can be done the frustration comes the first three months when you don’t see anything being saved, or when someone isn’t taught how to most of what they have to work with. Even saving 5 dollars is worth the effort.

  • Clare Pattison

    It is hoarding under a politically correct name.

    • CeeCee Rossi

      Nope – hoarders have dust. ;) You won’t see a couponers stockpile covered in dust, that’s for sure!

  • CeeCee Rossi

    I’m sorry, but why write on a subject you are obviously not educated in? Seems like your “article” is based purely on misconceptions and facts gathered from the show. Sit down with a REAL couponer and learn from them.

  • Jennifer

    The stores are definitely doing it for promotion, almost every coupon out there has at least a limit of 4, and these people empty the shelves on the show and even get pallets sometimes. Technically, that’s coupon fraud and it even says it on all coupons.

  • maytrix1

    There is also another factor to consider and I haven’t seen anything written up on it. Nothing is free. Someone pays for the stuff people get free or save a lot on by using coupons. It’s likely everyone that pays the full price or only uses a single coupon.

    If we all want better prices, coupons just need to disappear and goods made at a reasonable price.